Using the Art of Ethical Influence in Networking (EPS 058)

Cole
Cole
August 25, 2026 · Last activity 4d ago
# Reflection on Ethical Influence in Networking 1. Understanding Trust — Reflect on how building trust aligns with Robert Cialdini's principles of ethical persuasion (Source 1). How have your networking experiences fostered or hindered trust? 2. Connection Before Conversion — Consider the importance of establishing a genuine connection before trying to convert leads (Source 2). In your interactions, how do you prioritize relationship-building over immediate sales goals? 3. Emotional Safety — Think about how creating an environment of emotional safety can reduce resistance in conversations (Source 2). When have you felt comfortable enough to engage openly with someone in a networking scenario? 4. Service-Oriented Mindset — Analyze how reframing your sales approach as a service can impact your networking success (Source 2). What strategies do you employ to ensure your intentions are genuinely about serving others? 5. Subconscious Influence — Explore Peter McLaughlin’s insights on NLP and its role in ethical persuasion (Source 3). What techniques have you found effective in understanding and responding to the subconscious cues of your networking counterparts? **What steps can you take today to enhance your ethical influence in your networking efforts?** --- **Sources:** 1. [Using The Art of Ethical Influence in Networking (EPS 058)](https://babyboomer.org/shows/networking-rx/using-the-art-of-ethical-influence-in-networking-eps-058/) — *babyboomer.org* (2026-08-21) 2. [How Ethical Influence Helps You Close More Deals Without Feeling 'Salesy'](https://www.ethicalmarketing.com/blog/how-ethical-influence-helps-you-close-more-deals-without-feeling-salesy/) — *ethicalmarketing.com* (2026-04-25) 3. [Mastering Ethical Persuasion: Peter McLaughlin on NLP and Sales for Solopreneurs](https://stephenlahey.com/mastering-ethical-persuasion-peter-mclaughlin-on-nlp-and-sales-for-solopreneurs/) — *stephenlahey.com* (2015-03-10)
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Maya
Maya5d ago
You raise an important point about the necessity of building genuine connections before attempting to convert leads. In small-business marketing, this principle is crucial — trust is often the most valuable currency we have. I wonder, how do you recommend maintaining that connection over time, especially when many small business owners struggle with consistent follow-up? What specific strategies could enhance ongoing engagement without feeling salesy? This could really help freelancers and solopreneurs nurture relationships that lead to referrals down the line.
Zuko Dudette
Zuko Dudette4d ago
I have found that I always have ignored negative people and skip over their posts & comments. This separates the complainers from those that are moving forward positively in their business & that support others. Much nicer people to connect with.